I Am Woman, Hear Me Lead
Is the right man for the job
a woman?
There is a great debate raging in America right
now, and for once it doesn’t have to do with who should
have been voted off “Dancing With the Stars.” (On
a side note, shouldn’t a show called “Dancing With
the Stars” actually have stars?) The debate is
whether we’re ready for a female President. Now that Hillary
Clinton is running for President, we may face the possibility
of having a woman be the most powerful person in the world. Of
course, we had that when her husband was President, but that’s
neither here nor there.
There are those who say we’re ready for a woman to lead
because we need a change from the “good old boys network”
that controls government. Of course, this point is negated by
the fact that many of the same people who say Washington is run
by white men keep voting white men into office, thus continuing
the problem. And who says America isn’t smart?
There are others, like me, who have no problem with women leading,
but it has to be a competent woman. Seriously, how would you like
to wake up the day after Election Day to hear a newscaster say,
“In an election year full of firsts, we have the first woman
President-Elect, and her name is Paris Hilton”? Although
it would make for some interesting press conferences and the possibility
of the first Presidential sex scandal with video tape, I wouldn’t
want a woman who thought WalMart was a nightclub to be in control
of our vast military arsenal. Just the possibility of her nuking
Nicole Richie or the paparazzi should be enough for us to give
serious thought to having a woman President.
Okay, I know Hilton isn’t the typical woman, so let’s
go with two prominent current female leaders to get an idea of
how a female might lead: the aforementioned Hillary Clinton, and
current Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi. In Clinton’s
case, people say she’s shown great leadership skills. Let’s
take a look at what she’s done since being elected New York
State’s junior Senator. Hmmm…she’s sponsored
or supported legislation and got to run the Senate for a day.
Well, I’m convinced. I’m as qualified to be President
as Hillary is.
Then, we have Speaker Pelosi. Since taking the reins of the House
in January, she’s accomplished…well, we’re not
quite sure. Again, it depends on who you ask. To hear Pelosi talk,
they’ve accomplished so much, but the Republicans blocked
her from doing more. And what has the Pelosi House accomplished
according to the Congressional record? Somewhere in the neighborhood
of 50-60 bills were passed to the Senate for consideration, with
the bulk of them being for the naming of post offices. Sure, they
passed ethics reform and a minimum wage increase, but when the
bulk of your success comes from naming post offices, it’s
hard to say you’ve been a successful leader.
One has to wonder how much of the current “it’s time
for a woman President” sentiment is based on factors other
than qualifications. As I stated my previous column “Qualifications?
She Don’t Need No Stinking Qualifications!” Hillary
has been given credibility in some segments because she’s
a mom and has “the Mom Voice” to get people to believe
her. Beyond that, there are other possible motivations. Many women
have said they will vote for Hillary because she’s a woman.
For men, the motivation is possibly more basic.
Men like sex.
Ladies, trust me on this, there are men out there who will say
and do anything for sex, even if they don’t mean a word
of it. Case in point: Bill Clinton. Say the right words with the
right amount of conviction, and some men can seduce just about
any woman. (As my social calendar reflects, I’m not one
of them.) Oh, sure, there are men who feel genuinely guilty at
men running government for so long, but there aren’t that
many men these days looking to Alan Alda for man advice.
Once we strip away the possible motivations for voting for a
woman for a powerful political office, we should be left with
a central question: How will she react in a stressful situation?
(For the record, “Is she hot?” came in second.) This
is where women succeed or fail, depending on their character.
We know how former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher reacted
to the Falkland Islands situation and Cold War, and I think it’s
safe to say she handled herself well in both cases and in others
not mentioned. Compare that to how Hillary and Pelosi have reacted
under less stressful situations, which has been to blame Republicans
and others for their failures. Quite the difference, but one that
cannot be overlooked when we consider whether we want to pull
the lever for Hillary in November 2008. (And, men, if you’re
doing that too much, you’ll go blind.)
Perhaps the biggest hindrance to women becoming the head of our
government is themselves. Those who have put themselves forward
as leaders have been his or miss (or to be more politically correct,
Ms.), which makes it that much easier for voters to ignore the
female candidates and go with the male candidates. Ladies, if
you want to be seen as credible leaders, you have to have some
success being leaders. This means, of course, watching how women
political leaders like Hillary Clinton and Nancy Pelosi handle
themselves and address important issues that arise.
Then, do the exact opposite.
And that’s the Bottom Line.
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